I enjoy sharing this link when I can when I see people starting to learn about this topic! I think it’s crucial in truly understanding the concept of decolonization. clas.osu.edu/sites/clas.o...

I understand your pain. Binding gave me nerve damage so I rarely do it now even though it alleviates dysphoria greatly.

the sword slashes trans femmes on who’s “good nonbinary,” and it slashes against types like myself who spoiler alert- do not want to be sorted by my birth assignment at all. Misogyny impacts all marginalized genders, not just the “safe ones with vulvas” (which is also what it sounds like to me)

I just won’t ever not see “nonbinary afab” as a way to stab at trans femmes and reassert your association to colonial ideas of cis womanhood, regardless if an individual who uses such terms realizes those deep and harsh implications

AFAB and AMAB are crunchy terms our community uses in specific medical contexts and frankly, will likely shed when we find better language to describe base body types. There’s genuinely no need for it to be apart of your gender unless you want to differ from the “yucky transsexuals”

it surprisingly doesn’t take long for someone who navigates with a “nonbinary AFAB” label to effectively be my generation’s version of “womyn” and spit out horrific TERF sentiment and overall transphobia. I feel isolated but I know what I have to do going forward to myself and my doll safe.

my coping mechanism for the rest of the week is hanging on to living so I can probably see Jade squash a bunch of girls in the Royal Rumble 🤼

me having an awful psychiatric episode but knowing I will be cured through the power of matzo ball soup and perhaps even another meaty snack

Me and @juicyjuice.bsky.social

if RAW isn’t careful, I’ll whip out “Boots of Leather, Slippers of Gold” to academically explain why Maxine Dupri and Ivy Nile are femme-butch perfection 🤼