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Jess Soleigh
@soleigh.bsky.social
ADHD art goblin, animator, server dad, craft obsessed. She/they. ko-fi.com/jsoleigh
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we love to see a banger update even years down the road

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Curse was a big part of my childhood but I also never got around to grim fandango! gonna have to correct that as well i think!

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I get into niche hobby stuff every now and then at random, usually very briefly but enjoy it regardless, so yeah when related niche stuff pops up like this it makes me happy!

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ugh god it really is, i gotta update it from last time which was even sadder (and im still not really over) but glad we at least still have these things 🥲

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food (pie) and a piece of art was literally all I was originally even going to afford from the start as a "splurge", hate this

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god wait that's right not even just next month, *next week* I'm not even going to be able to afford ingredients to make birthday food

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still reeling from spouse losing job AND me re-realizing I havent been paid yet from current work AND his birthday is next month ahhaaaa this isnt fun at all, lemme tell ya

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no

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Also DOCUMENT THOSE ACHIEVEMENTS. Your brain wants to hold onto the bad, but when you start physically documenting what you *did* achieve each time, even if small, the evidence starts to pile up that yes, you *do* get stuff done.

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If, for example, you just learned how to knit, but didnt get to finish your first piece, would you apply that feeling of guilt for having simply learn a new skill? Reframing what is even worthy of guilt in general can help you see where it's misplaced, rather than trying to get rid of it entirely.

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Jess Soleigh
@soleigh.bsky.social
ADHD art goblin, animator, server dad, craft obsessed. She/they. ko-fi.com/jsoleigh
191 followers490 following976 posts