9) You can grow your community in an easy way by just being an empathetic person. Hate and bigotry get turbo blocked into the shadow realm and deservedly so. This isn't to say don't have and enforce your boundaries because doing so is important, but don't be an asshole, man. Be kind and be an ally.

as they say: being nice costs you nothing :)

10) and lastly, knowing you'll never be perfect is one of the most important tenets you could internalize. No one is perfect. That's why we're human. We have faults, aren't infallible. --