*is bad. I think for the most part its our own responsibility to manage our triggers but still there's a somewhat lack of consideration. I once saw an artist apologising for plugging their work "even tho rhe world is burning" and I just thjnk JFC let people live, there's a time and place.

I've felt this so much but not seen it articulated! obviously people need to be realistic but also the sentiment of "if you're not in the grips of utter despair you're delusional and burying your head in the sand" is a bad people have their own ways of dealing with shit that isn't performative

was about to scroll past but then had an ancient memory A C T I V A T E D

and I know if anyone tried to sit her down and gently explain exactly why she was out of her fucking she would cry and throw herself to rhe floor and scream bloody murder because somone implied she might be a bit homophobic

like.....maybe pick an angle and stick with it? are you voting no because of twitter meanies or because you have conservative views on the family? if this was an objection then why not abstain from voting instead of voting no? mam, whatever is going on with you is not the LGBT's problem

I'm talking "the world revolves around me! and my self perception!" and "yes that's right I'm voting no now! you should sit in the corner and think about that!" the reason? """"gay activists"""" on twitter being mean. She then goes on a tangent about how kids do better in two parent families 2/

back when gay marriage was being "debated" in Aus there was a think peice from a self described "non religious progressive women" who was letting the WHOLE LGBT population of Australia know that she was voting no and my God was it a greatest hits album of "fake ally to stealth bigot meltdown" 1/

literally "virtue signalling" allyship

I had that once but then it made me realise no, I actually DID want that thing 😞.

we're calling "Art not in alignment with what is currently marketable" selfish now 🫠