This was my immediate family. My folks and my siblings alike. It was like they almost enjoyed yelling and shouting at each other then refusing to reach an understanding at all. No one can agree to disagree. Being angry was more important than anyone else's feelings.

My 21st birthday was like this. A day just for me and a time when all I wanted was to have a good time with family? Not as important as whatever they wanted to bitch and argue about.