While representation is important, so many people start acting like you need to do representation a certain way or its wrong, even if it's sincere to the author's experience.

Exactly, I like writing the dirty reality of my life and many don't want to hear it. Hell all the censorship we are facing from a couple sites makes it impossible to even talk about my life. Kind of drives me crazy. Human life is just messy and hell but we need to colour coat it all.