As a gay cis-man myself, my ND soy boy hairy ass might not mean shit, and I was raised by a single mother, BUT all the father figures in my life had serious anger management problems and didn’t know how to be a halfway decent person. Only an uncle here or there were at least halfway decent.

I wanna say more, but to the point: a man ain’t all that he’s cracked up to be. Half of the time, you’ll get someone who’s angry and broken, and the other half of the time, you’ll get a halfway decent person. Whereas a woman is more likely to want to learn from you, and teach you new things.