Oh hell yes. And I work in tax so we are now helping employers lay off team, closing businesses etc. That takes a toll. Add in hubby's mental health (nearly lost him three years ago) being terrible, leaving a job with PTSD, getting new job, redundancy... Working three jobs, studying. I'm so done.

that is WAAAYYYY more than most and the constant being on alert for hubby (we have that with our youngest). I hear you. I see you. My 'tank' is a smaller tank now than it used to be so empties pretty quickly.