And what do you want from people of this community? Became more helpful? Well, it's not happening. I believe in personal act, I mean if I want to change something for myself, I do it. And I do not persuade other people who clearly do not listen or worse try to act opposite.
I don't think you need to speak for everyone. It will only lead to more misunderstandings. I'm sorry if you personally have encountered such an attitude in your relationship with partner. I wish you to find a healthier relationship if you need it.
Unfortunately for me, that's not for me to ask, it's for someone who doesn't want it. I mean talk and help.
It seems only fair that we should solve our own problems. But all our history, as a species, shows that mutual help and support is the only way to survive difficult times. God give everyone a partner to support and give you the strength to help and support such a person.
I've got some options, but, gals, you're not gonna like them. So get your shit together and get to work. Better honest labor than dubious earnings online or on the street.