So what’s the solution? No two people are ever going to share the exact same opinion on content moderation, so you’d either need to run your own network to enforce your personal moderation preferences (Mastodon-style), or create filters on an existing network based on those preferences (Bsky-style).

There's "sharing the exact opinion" and then there's basic minimums. We can argue/disagree on idk, whether you're allowed to tell someone to fuck off or whatever, but at the minimum a social network should ban racism, transphobia, homophobia, Nazis, pedos, AI bs, etc.