it really is fucking upsetting because, like, my identity is one that needs unconditional acceptance because it is far outside the norm, so i do *want* a culture of default validation/acceptance. but im seeing in realtime how that's backfiring. either i have no space or i share it with the worst ppl

you can roll with us you seem cool you seem like you’d say “oh my bad” if you did something minorly shitty instead of turning it into world war iii