Every white person has racism to unlearn, this is just an unfortunate fact, and anyone that says they don't, is bullshitting themselves

Exactly the culture is suffused with notions of white suppremacy sublimated in some way or another... this steeps folks anti-blackness, ableism & queermisia from implicit to explicit Just wanting to be non-racist, -ableist, -queerphobic doesn't make it so without doing the work

I catch myself thinking racist stuff sometimes and I really really hate it, but it's a product of having been raised in a deeply racist society. One of those "it's not your fault but it is your responsibility" moments.