maybe giving ourselves permission to be happy is the main thing standing in the way for a lot of us

the reason i rejected myself when i first realized i was trans was that i thought i would be hurting others for the sake of my own happiness, which i believed i did not deserve so.. yes 100% yes

DEFINITELY 💜💜💜 Not without some irony, re-accessing the ability to cry was a joyful moment for me, roughly equivalent to the joy I felt when my tits started growing and, in facing my final fear (so far), I suddenly realized I'd been afraid of the wrong things my whole life It's weird right? ✨😃✨