So, me trying to be concerned for the well-being of someone without any want of anything in return is considered rude to you? What sort of twisted logic is that? Listen, I get it's her choice and her decision, and I know that she knows the dangers. That won't stop me from being concerned, though.

You appear to want to do people a service. A very, very important thing to remember: If the recipient doesn't want it, it's not service.You appear to want to do people a service. A very, very important thing to remember: If the recipient doesn't want it, it's not service.