Are you oblivious to flirting or do you have self esteem issues and refuse to believe someone could be attracted to you?

Well consider the ammount of sleepovers and hangouts it took with my girl friend to grow the balls to ask her out, yeah... (we are together)

I'm the kind who flirts, then later remember that I should probably point out that all my flirting is platonic and only meant to cheer people up. I'm not actually attracted to them 🙊

...Yes.

i’m genuinely just very oblivious 😭

Both I think

Yes

ow

What if you gave the other self esteem issue, the one where you believe /everyone/ is flirting with you? Asking for myself.

It's cause and effect, isn't it?

100% the oblivious thing, my self esteem issues are mostly limited to imposter syndrome