No, no, no. I'm trying to see how the if-you-don't-take-your-shoes-off-you're-disgusting ethic works for wheelchairs. I mean, those wheels go everywhere shoes go, so I assume you're making an exception. What I'm curious about is how that hits you. My spouse uses a chair, btw.

It’s completely disingenuous to ask this question and question my ethics around how I treat people with disabilities. Just completely insulting. Why would you weaponize your spouse’s use of a wheelchair to get a “gotcha” on an internet stranger? Completely inappropriate behavior.

Quit being disingenuous & arguing in bad faith. It isn't a good look for you.