Honestly this. Also, having a fetish is not inherently wrong? Last time I checked???

Yeah true true

This is true, but also, finding something attractive isn't the same as a fetish.

Exactly. Fetish is fine as long as everyone is consenting and boundaries are being respected. I have close friends with fat fetishes and none of them have ever been disrespectful towards me nor any other fat person. Unfortunately a lot of outsiders think that fetish is inherently disrespectful.