Context is helpful thanks! And yeah, there's SO much more pressure not to transition. I've seen gatekeeping here and there from trans folks who act like you need to transition to be trans, but that seems rare unless you specifically go looking for it

Sorry for accusing you of putting words in their mouth when I really just didn't have the full context 🙏

yes, this is basically it! no one’s actually trying to police anyone’s personal transition journey over here :) thank you for your patience and letting me explain, i appreciate it!