Are you meaning online, or in real life? Because in real life, people from Aotearoa New Zealand will not tell you if they are unhappy about something. It's a national trait to be so bad at conflict that they'd rather bottle it up for twenty years. Of course online AoNZers are as venomous as others.

probably should have specified online, bc those were primarily the terms i was thinking in, yeah. i think there's something to be said about how the internet can expose how someone or how a population 'really' acts when there are no physical social pressures influencing their behavior, though