I reclaimed queer for myself and occasionally for the community. No umbrella term is perfect and LGBTQIA is hard to say every time

I often stumble over the acronym but not intentionally. Just saying it gets a bit of a tongue twister. I see it’s often the GC gays who get irate over the term and demand others stop using it for themselves or when referencing the community. But they can’t gatekeep how other people identify