incest- you mean the kink where you subsume your deep and heartfelt craving for genuine connection into a framework of presumed intimacy that allows you to outsource 90% of the bonding to the kink, allowing you to skip straight to intimate affection that temporarily soothes your aching heart? right?
Okay not even fucking around here, this post has lived rent free in my head since I saw it yesterday and so much just clicked together in my head. This gave me a genuine revelation about what is going on inside my head.
Ehhh, I just find breaking taboos hot ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Something like that
Spent years suppressing my kink/complaining about others enjoying it because so many people back away from you when they find out you're into it, but this year I've decided to just let go of the anxiety and enjoy myself