my emotional reaction is probably tied a lot to my trauma from years of repression bullshit. while i was flailing around as a weird androgynous "bisexual" emo faggot, i occasionally found myself in gay male spaces and always felt completely alien and out of place. i'm sure i'm projecting that a bit.

half of them have redefined transmed as "thinking transitioning and hrt are good" at this point, so i'm afraid their little brains are well and truly cooked

i guess, and i stress that no offense is intended, it seems almost like soft degendering yourself. like, i can grasp it intellectually, but there's a visceral rejection that i find really hard to shake.

i honestly would have expected the same thing. i'm finding the idea of 'gay men as your natural peers' hard to even wrap my head around. like, it shocked me.

my audhd ensures i take my regular sunday injection like clockwork, on tuesday. at this point, i just trust the process. 😁

please don't be offended by this, but sometimes, one of you girls on managed care will post something and i end up just feeling bad for you all, because, like, this makes me think the doctor in charge of your dosing is incompetent. 😬

if it's the same room for all of them you're just pressure cooking trans lesbian polycules.

must be the same ethicist they consulted about their coverage of trans issues.

it was! like, nowadays songs go viral, but back then, you got a new cd and you lived that album for a while. you played it over and over, you played it for your friends, etc. some of my favorite songs are b tracks that grew on me, and people just don't experience music that way any more.

i like these. they sell other varieties, too. www.etsy.com/listing/1632...