People can be so out of touch sometimes and I get it can frustrate the one who gets to hear this "great advice" 🙃 I am also sorry it has been hard for you and hope to be able to keep supporting whenever I can.. And no need to be sorry over getting frustrated - because they sound frustrating peeps 😅

Yeah, I'm sure they mean well, and other than that weird comment they were complimenting my work, they just really didn't understand how it works. I don't think they do even after I tried explaining it. But that's no wonder when it really is confusing and unfair, I hardly understand it myself 😅