If you make a commercial product that allows someone to remotely access video, audio, or location data from a device, I am begging you to threat model for domestic abuse BEFORE YOU SHIP YOUR GODDAMN PRODUCT.

Totally agree with you. Consumer products should be tested by a class of kindergarteners, and [Ethically sketchy, technically-minded forum of your choice] before being released. I feel this would solve a lot of issues, as "How can I misuse this?" is not a popular question in corporate circles.

Every car maker quietly going on about their business model…

Apple didn’t do enough due diligence on the potential for abuse when they released AirTags.

Security teams need more marginalized folks, and for those folks to then be listened to.

Isn't that the whole reason they make them?

"That's not in the budget." -billion dollar corporation