I don't know why she felt the need to put me down? Or didn't consider me one of her "cherished" friends, despite how long we've know each other. but i don't care anymore. Realizing i cherished the friendship a lot more then she did. I don't wish her any ill will, just to learn and be better.

I wish for good things to come her way, to not be as judgemental and show more grace towards others. Stop trying to give people advice, you're not a therapist, just be there for your friends and listen, they'll figure stuff out. And if it's too much for you? then just be honest about it.