god forbid a character be quite literally blinded by rage and spiritually body hop/possess a woman so he can interact with the physical plane so that he might enact revenge without ASKING PERMISSION TO BODY HIJACK HER, that's just too much.

Oh, murder is fine as long as he asks permission but ONLY then People are so weird about fictional characters like this did not actually happen it is all okay pretend who cares if the character would be a bad person in real life. The only crime a fictional guy can commit is being boring