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Twisted Scarecrow
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Toastie, medical librarian, parent, Buffalo Buffalo Buffalo. I enjoy playing with clay and drawing and the musical stylings of They Might Be Giants. (she/her/hers)
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If I squint I can kind of see how viewing the body might provide closure of a sort but there's no food or drink or readings or even music. It's just grim.

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Let's plasticize our loved one so they look uncanny and unfamiliar and then stand around for hours in uncomfortable shoes! That's what grief needs!

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TSginkgotree.bsky.social

And "grim" is distinct from "somber" or "solomn," both of which I think are totally appropriate vibes. We get that at the funeral. The wake is extra.

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TS
Twisted Scarecrow
@ginkgotree.bsky.social
Toastie, medical librarian, parent, Buffalo Buffalo Buffalo. I enjoy playing with clay and drawing and the musical stylings of They Might Be Giants. (she/her/hers)
153 followers433 following341 posts