Once or twice you can brush it off. But when it reaches the stage where they have made it clear they can get to you ANYWHERE, ANYTIME, and do god knows what (they would turn up In bars where I was drinking and photograph me and my friends), that’s monumentally stressful.

That they do this is utterly absent from the public narrative, which frames us, their victims, as the ones engaging in vaguely (and unspecified) problematic behaviour, while we end up on psychiatric medication because they’ve scared us and our loved ones half to death.