Something I wish were more understood about Blanchardianism is that a major function of it is to keep transhet girls more identified with our sexual value to men than with our kinship with trans lesbians and that simply has to be resisted.

100% The 'avoid association anyone who doesn't ~"pass" as well as you' implies this requisite hypervigilance and hierarchy which are so corrosive to finding trans community, and so set many folks up to lack history, elders, and reality checks..

So, i get to learn a new word today, and it's a word for "dumbest overly complicated gender model I've read about all week?" Why are so many new words i find on bsky like that!?

The more we embrace connection with trans lesbians, the more “AGP” we are. Good! Embrace that too!

I think it is kind of understood, but the amount of light and awareness put into the issue is not quite enough.