As a mostly transhet fairy, trans lesbians have been among the most important people to my life. Trans lesbians are brilliant, varied, brave, and special. Kinship with them should be a source of pride, not shame.

I blocked one trans het former friend on all social media because she (a) kept wanting to include cis het chasers under the queer umbrella, and (b) mocked someone arguing against this as "no doubt a lesbian" like our thoughts are somehow less valid

I’m gonna go out on a limb with another aspect of this I’ve been thinking about: I also think transhet girls tend to be really vulnerable when we DON’T have connections with trans lesbians.