When someone wants space, their reasons are theirs and theirs alone unless they choose to share them. It's not an attack. They could have trauma. Their life could be a flying stress anvil. There's no harm in asking what happened, but if they're not feeling that either, leave em alone.

This is something I need to remind both myself and others of frequently!

💯 If someone takes you setting a boundary as a personal attack, that is major red flag vibes

This is good advice and lots of people need to hear it. Nobody has to share everything. Sometimes sharing can cause immense emotional stress and harm. People need to respect boundaries.

damn, seriously, i needed this vindication today u.u