Are you me? I did the same, was spending just as much time working as a "guild officer" as I was at my real job. Sucked the fun out of it, and I realized how much real life I was missing. Logged off and never looked back.

Yeah, that feeling soured me on MMO's in general. The time demands for organizing around endgame content were too much for me. Fun fact though, Duncan Hunter (Jr.) was in our guild when he first ran for his father's seat in congress. Interesting glimpse behind the scenes of running for office.