My gf's cat also HATES the carrier (fighting, scratching, peeing) and will take your arm off if you try to nape her. One day, we tried putting on one of the Travel Cat harnesses and... she was absolutely fine with it. Now she gets to sit in mom's arms, and the leash prevents running away.
I'm so sorry you and Mirri are going through that. I imagine that the feeling that the hard-won trust you've both been working towards might be damaged is heart-breaking. Are you open to hearing an alternative for next time that might be less traumatic to her (and, so, to you both)?
How old are you in internet years without telling your age?
Make a book title edible Love In The Time of Cauliflower (alternately - Love in the Thyme of Cholera) Breaded Player One
PayPal is updating their ToS to let themselves give your data to merchants starting in November and they're certainly banking on people not knowing to opt out, SO to opt out before they start: go to Settings > Data & Privacy > Manage shared info > Personalized shopping, and toggle that shit off
As someone who left the synagogue this year bc of the shitty stances - I still got the war goysplained to me by someone I considered a friend after I called them in for posting antisemitic imagery. We will never be considered One Of The Good Ones. Live your ethics within your scope of tikkun olam.
Was finishing up reading the Kindle version of an old favorite novel (Sterling E. Lanier's _Hiero's Journey_) yesterday and wondered if the sequel, _The Unforsaken Hiero_, had hit Kindle yet. What a joy it was to discover that, yes, it had been released on Kindle *that very day*.
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Eric Adams is amazing because when he won every media person was leaping over each to go āthis is the normal sane leadership that the political left doesnāt understand normal sane Americans craveā and then every day since that Eric Adams has been like āLeprechauns are real and Iām going to cook oneā