it does genuinely help you realize that weird kinks are not the end of the world and to just be happy for people who are enjoying themselves
It's also just interesting to listen to a person talk about what makes them happy, makes you feel introspective. Even if you don't understand, you know own that there is happiness to be found somewhere.
I think more people need to be open about weird kinks in general. It's always so weird to me how so few people outside of my queer friends tend to not talk about their sex lives like at all.
Genuinely I'm more comfortable around furries than most other people. There's an inherent lack of judgement with them
sometimes you even realize they're your kinks too and that it's perfectly chill to be into after seeing how chill others actually are about it themselves