using your oppression on one axis to downplay your privilege on a different axis is bonkers, anti-intersectional, evil shit and IT FUCKING WORKS

IT'S SO EVIL AND PEOPLE CONTINUALLY SO IT. it's especially evil to actively lampshade doing it too!!!!

and it's always people doing this that claim to like "be the most intersectional" or some shit when it's so obv they have never read a lick of Crenshaw or are like deliberately misrepresenting the concept