I've been trying to grow it out bc I also hate the sensory overload of wearing wigs, but I prefer long hair when I'm doing EGL (and wanted to wear my natural hair more. it's been ten years now since I last had hair past my chin...) maybe an undercut would solve some of these issues

but then I'd have to wear extensions or something in egl bc fullness of hair helps to counterbalance the voluminus ruffles and petticoats rRRRGHHH