I also implore people to sometimes give the benefit of the doubt that many of us don't want to share that content but we're just not as good at catching some of the details. I don't know in my case if it's how I'm visually processing with my autism or something but I do really struggle with it.

I’m horrible at normal I Spy. I totally get (and am) bad at AI I spy. Unless they try to do it with music. My ears can pick up what my eyes can’t. One of our local radio stations played a generated Elvis song, the lifelessness of it was disturbing.

i find it better to not look for individual tells and just go for ‘do i feel ill for reasons i can’t put my finger on’ and if yes, it is