Done crying about it. Going to try to get some sleep because Iโm averaging 3 hours a night and Iโm sure thatโs adding onto my feelings of hopelessness, too.
Nobody can do shit to help me and I know that. I reserve the right to cry about it a little bit. Iโve had this infection for months. I need surgery to clear it. I feel like a dead man walking right now.
I donโt have time for this! I have โจno safety netโจ, I canโt afford to be incapable of making money. Period.
Literally feeling absolutely hopeless right now. I try to work and my pain levels are so bad itโs making me dizzy and nauseous and incapable of doing anything. I have a fever pretty much every day. I need this surgery over with. But then Iโll have to recover.
I love being in such excruciating pain that I canโt work for more than an hour at a time ๐โ๏ธ Lovely. Itโs not like my health issues are already making me burn through my savings or anything!!! (Being VERY SARCASTIC RN!!!) Surgery in 12 days. It canโt come fast enough.
I donโt know why some ableds are determined to believe that as disabled and/or chronically ill people we just woke up one day and decided to make our own lives monumentally harder for funsies. ๐ฅด
Iโm sad about this tonight and Iโm allowed to be.๐๐ฎ
Something I hate about the disabled experience is when people think they donโt matter to me bc my health is unreliable. I donโt cancel plans or reply late bc Iโm not thinking of you. It is literally a struggle just to wake up + perform my basic bodily functions. Like BEING ALIVE!
Had a procedure yesterday and didnโt feel awful afterwards but now that the anesthesia has completely worn off, ya boy โจdoes not feel good!โจ And I have another surgery next month. ๐โ๏ธ Anyway, now I just need to wait for the biopsy to come back. I know in my soul itโs going to be good news. ๐ฎ๐
Any advice appreciated!!