Trans women will be like “yeah I’ve had a complicated relationship with sex for my entire life because I’m repulsed by the thought of having sex with my own genitals and the thought of a romantic partner seeing me ejaculate sperm fills me with dread. I don’t really have bottom dysphoria tho”
this was me af forever pre-trans til i heard someone else talk about it in a relatable way THEN in therapy we unpacked how linked my aceness was to my dysphoria. 🤦🏻♀️ then it was just me making excuses because i was terrified of going under for surgery which I’ve now overcome (FFS) aye yay yay
half of this is maybe me, so clearly i have nothing to worry about 😊
Listen, okay—😭
"I can see how that might look like bottom dysphoria from almost every angle you can imagine, but have you considered No It's Not?"
yep this exact thought pattern, all the damn time. 😭😭😭
Solidarity from a trans guy who has always been the same way, but opposite.
Me to my partner that time I came VERY close to coming out: “I don’t want to be a WOMAN I just wonder how it would feel to have a vagina.” Don’t know how I managed to backtrack from that one.
well...this might be me...
It's so hard to process and like actually interrogate it's so painful and also most of the time all ppl value abt is :C