This is a very dismissive take. Even introverts want intimacy and it gets very demoralizing when feelings go unreciprocated. There is only so much social rejection social creatures can take.

Like, if you were punched over and over you'd bruise and maybe you'd want to stay away from situations where you get punched. How'd you feel if you're told the problem is you being easy to bruise? No one is obligated to love us, but don't talk like we're the problem.