I had a moment kinda like that recently. I came out to my mom, and she was super supportive and even gave me some of her old clothes. I was shocked to realize that some of her clothes actually fit me. I'd always felt like I was so much bigger than her, like a big lumbering ogre...

Oh! I just now got the subtext of that one bit in that pre-transition video where you mentioned your depression making you feel like Shrek.