Yeah… it’s pretty depressing. :/ like, I don’t really put much stock in the assumed goodness of people I don’t know and have never met, but it was still extremely disappointing.

That sounds healthy, I agree, he was a fave from back before I learned to keep it more separate, back in the real nerd days XD I hate to beat the dead horse of "we thought he was one of the good ones" but a lot of us did