transness has materially shaped my life and is inseparably entwined with my being. my existence is politicized within context by nature of a cisheteronormative society, but that does not mean that transness is inherently political. gender is value natural and more of you should be normal about it.

Mrs Frood and I were talking about this last night, that it’s incredibly weird for cis people to be wrapped up in gender or offended if someone uses “they/them” pronouns for them. For a trans person it’s totally different because gender is something you have to assert instead of a passive label.

I’m a red blooded American man and even tho I do a wolf whistle every time I see a nice pair of value naturals, I know gender comes in all shapes and sizes. And you’ve got to respect the person who has them even if they’re absolutely stacked

as a kid of the 80s *really* wish transness wasn't so voluntarily politicized by trans people as much (or at all) as it is ditto for lesbian, sapphic, pan, etc

Of course us cis people should go first in that regard

I wish I was born in times where discovering transness would be like finding out left hand works better than right minus teachers beating you with a ruler