maybe this is a hot take but i hate the usage of "-play" as a suffix with regards to anything kink and sex related. it's the "-gate" suffix but for sex nerds. not only does it have horrible mouthfeel, but also it makes sex sound lame as hell. "oh yeah i've been getting into ropeplay" go outside.

really into cuddleplay recently

I do not have a strong opinion on this either way

pissgate gamerplay

fine, rolelabor

I was into gateplay until gateplaygate, but now I doing a lot of gateplaygateplay.

Strokeplay.... wait, that's golf. Nevermind.

Go outside? Oh you mean grassplay?

“Ive been getting into Coldplay” go outside

counterpoint petplay is a great word for it

i think play is good. kink is weird and silly. there are aspects such as safety to be taken seriously, but i think it's important to not get lost in always taking it too seriously, to remember to have fun. to be able to laugh at yourself about it. to play.