I wrote about it a while ago (there are some glitches in the copy from when I switched to Hugo) but this was the incident. I didn't want it to mention k8s since it was still new at the time and the technology wasn't the point. https://www.juliaferraioli.com/blog/2014/08/do-you-even/

I’m sorry this happened to you (over and over) but thank you so much for sharing your story. ❤️ When I was young I was too embarrassed to speak up and just internalized a lot of the bullshit.