90% of Taylor’s music isn’t about “picking the wrong guy” it’s about a woman learning that she takes priority over a mediocre man. #KamalaHarris

Even worse, when I do approach it it’s just so awkward.

No one I’m close to now (my spouse, my friends, even most my family) knew me when some of my most traumatic experiences ever happened. So now an adult and working through this trauma sometimes feel very lonely. No one’s ever like “hey you wanna talk this thing that happened 20+ years ago?”

(I know it’s not that easy but ilu)

Or just look in a mirror handsome devil