just remembered talking dysphoria in public with cis people and how if it's not voice they'll assume it's vanity (face and chest), dysmorphia (ribcage) or a sex thing (waist & below)

this skeet bought to you by the vivid memory of meeting HR because I said "I wish I had hips like [cis coworker]" which is another thing! Queer circles will let you be a cringe babytrans if they can pigeon-hole you, "oh all the internet trans women are like that"