And even if people are super lovely and great, it's still *my* time and I will spend it how I want. Elderly relatives get 'duty time' out of me. If we are but internet randos to one another, no.

I have had a few instances of people getting arsy because I don't reply to them, and ... no. Stop. Ask yourself why you believe a total stranger is obliged to give you their time and energy whenever you want it. Maybe also consider if shouting "Look at me!" is likeable even in a toddler.