some of the most respectful and "caring about your comfort" folks i've met have been those in the local BDSM scene, the hard-kink practitioners and nsfw artists i just trust those groups to genuinely understand and value consent and safety, moreso than people who find that stuff morally icky

tfw being kinky unironically makes you a morally better person than any of those holier than thou "ur a porn addict!!!!!" types because it instills a respect for boundaries and empathy for how other people are experiencing things

Considering the prudish people who extremely hate NSFW and kink content among conservative republican politicians, influencers, and news 'journalists' keep getting outed as pedophiles, rapists, zoophiles, and sex pests I honestly find all forms of extreme prudishness very sus now adays.

Got me thinking of that influencer who went to a kink con recently and posted essentially being grossed out by all the “weirdos” and the response overwhelmingly was like “Yep, and you were the only lame one there!”

That's a cool and valuable perspective. I've been told I have the knack to put value in small things but BDSM is no small thing!

Something something that Tumblr post about the Bisexual Death Commandos and kinksters in a post-apocalyptic world being the only guardians of consent