yeah i get it too, but i don't think harassing people or pulling the ableist card every time is good either. as you explained, ppl don't know what everyone else is going through and assuming every case does it to cause intentional harm? it's not helpful. i think so too. <:,/

yeah it's one of those things people can get really binary-brained about bc it's easy to get Big Emotions About It i guess lol "assume other people are doing their best" isn't always good advice but it sure would be in this case